A long long post

Yeah.. as the title suggests, this is gonna be one hell of a long post. To make up for the long hiatus, this is my way of making up for all the long overdue items that i'm suppose to post.

First up.

Yup. My parents are going thru a divorce right now. It could have been much simpler in a sense that if both parties are able to settle their issues amicably. But sadly, nope. Like in most divorce cases, both parties are fighting for the assets and what nots, trying to be the right one in this lose lose situation and pin pointing fingers on who is to be blamed.

I respect that my mom knows clearly what she wants, but my dad, is a different story altogether. To make things simpler, lets just say he is very much confused right now.

Times are hard, physically i am already accustomed to it. I am already able to not hear nor see what i want to exclude, but psychologically, the burden is mounting. As the court date is drawing nearer, tension really do run high in this stupid place. I think i have kept my cool darn well.. but its also due to gf and soadiq's presence that made it possible. Thank you love, for being there.. Thanks bro for being there.

*I wish people spend more time on their marriages than on their wedding.*

Next up, I am now posted to Neurology discipline. A far cry from my previous Infectious and Dermatological disease discipline.

Not that i really like this current discipline.. But i think it will provide a great learning platform for me to move on to something better. =) I will therefore slog my ass of at work, so that i can build a steady and bompipi foundation for my career. I will succeed. Because its essential. I want to lead a good life, and i want to be able to provide comfortably for love and her mummy.

Working in the Neuro ward is definitely not easy, but i am determined. So please people.... give me your support!

There was alot of outings, whether it was with K & G (Kenneth & Grace) or with the LBEM (La Ballroom En Masse) or with the Awesomes BB gang.. Visited many places that we never knew existed in Singapore.. Like the Cheesecake Cafe for instance... Fantawonderbulous place it is!

The Interior Decor & ambience, i give it a two thumbs two toes up.

Love and me after a gastronomically sastifying meal. =D

We had a sort of picnic and kite flying session and it was nothing lesser than Marvellous! Take a look at the pics!

Love was excellent in Kite flying. I dropped the spool twice. She flew the kite liken to a new found freedom.

Of course we were'nt the only ones there...

Beautiful you. =D

Kites to me, they're like flowers blooming in the sky.

The best part about it was of course the preparation where we both rushed to complete Mission Impossible, possible. =) **Loves**

And now this is for you my Dear,

As we both not only have commitment to each other, we have new commitments too.. Be it work or family. I understand that our carefree time like we used to have will be hard to come by, but i want to make this clear..

• That i enjoy spending time with you, be it for a short while or for as long as it takes because you are the best that i can ever have. =)
• That i cherish every moment that i have with you, because each and everyone will be something for us to look back at and laugh at, to reminisce at.
• That no matter how busy i am, i am more than willing to put aside time to be with you, to have a simple dinner with you, to have a simple walk with you or to catch our much love movie outings.
• That my faith in you still remain strong or even stronger than before, and that we can work towards the future that we always yearn for.
• That my love for you, still stand strong thru the passing of time.

I am really looking forward to 2 years later, you know what i mean. =) You darling, I love you.

I will not walk infront of you to lead you. I will not walk behind you to push you. I will walk beside you and we will overcome all obstacles together, side by side.

With Love,
Irfan